In
this weeks material we explored the ideas of becoming an adult and being with
others and forming relationships. I found the idea of creating scenarios and
almost fantasizing about life that was discussed in chapter 10 to be very
fascinating. I believe that everyone starts out about making or defining a
life-span construct (sense of past, present and future) which then can lead
into manifesting the future, also called scenario. I think that it is
interesting to see how these scenarios and social clocks (setting a time or age
for a scenario) can be changed from where someone is raised or how they are
raised. This draws into the idea of the biopsychosocial framework. When you
look at a scenario for someone like getting married there are a lot of
different ideas about when this should happen. What age is put onto it differs.
I am not able to relate this to a biological construct but I can see how the
psycho and social roles could play on this.
I
am from Seattle we had 1 person get married right outside of high school out of
300 people in my graduating class (that I know of ) my boyfriend from Lynden
had maybe 20 people from a much smaller graduating class. This is not just a
coincidence but an example of how the biopsychosocial framework is really
everywhere. I think that this is mostly a small town idea to get married young
and I think it is social. What it is exactly about the small town I am not
sure. It could be religion, education, economics and definitely a mixture
between them all. I think it is fascinating that a place only 90 miles away
could have such a lower marriage rate outside of high school.
I would like to know more about how small town and cities
differ in things like marriage rate and amount of children. I have heard that
lesser developed countries tend to have more children because the more children
there are the more money can be brought into the home. I do not know how
accurate that is but I wonder how marriage and children would differ when
looking and similar socioeconomic trends but small verses large cities?